Signs you are dating a controlling man

They can turn what is supposed to be a loving, supporting, and understanding relationship into the “fatal attraction” often described in movies.

There are a variety of “bad choices” that may be encountered each week - most of which are easily to identify and avoid.

Are you obsessing about activities that require you to be alone (any time you can’t be with your love)?

Have all the goals and activities that previously defined you suddenly been pushed to the back burner for no reason other than that your love is not into them?

WRONG…There are a few subtle signs to look out for on the first date that are pretty accurate indicators of whether or not a man will be controlling. He insists on picking you up He tells you you’re on the way anyways.

That you will get lost if you try to find the place yourself.

We all know to avoid people that appear insane or abusive and not select them as a dating partner.

However, some individuals are better at hiding their personality and behavior abnormalities.

After all, if you pay attention, no one can tell you, "I told you so."1. Often under the guise of wanting to help you — whether it's to improve an area of your life or to keep you from embarrassing yourself — men who find a way of criticizing your behavior and choices are flexing their control muscle.It could be that he refuses to accompany you on group outings with your friends, or that he demands to know where and with whom you are at all times.One of the tell-tale signs that he's slowly cutting you off from your friends is his readiness to bad-mouth them.He even laughs at you when you say that you have a first-date policy of always meeting the guy there.Controlling men think that they know what’s best for a woman, inferring that they think it’s cute we have these little “policies” but that they’re actually useless.